Well just links few topics related to sex that Nepali youths are discussing. Feels good to see such topics.
Each son should have sex education talks with his mom
Ametya discusses here an idea how sexual education can be started right from childhood. He presents his ideas with personal experiences. This is a great idea as sex discussion with a mother may make a child aware of sexual offenses that they may be victim to. It will also help them to learn about safe sexual practice and help them lead a healthy sexual life.
A shocking series of pictures
Apart from his regular tech gossip you can see Bittertruth(Navin) discussing sex scandals and story of man who mistook porn for cries of women. But in this post he posts a shocking pictures in which two kids are seen in compromising positions. This is a eye opener to why it is necessary to educate children on issues regarding sex from their early age.
Should abortion be legal or illegal
Youths discussion pros and cons of legalizing abortion. This topic is one of my favorites topics in all of the Nepali discussion forums regarding talks about sex.
Someone i can talk to
What are the things that bother Nepali teenagers? Who do they talk to about their innermost concerns? To whom do Nepali adolescents turn to when they want to learn about sex? Is the information they get correct and useful? From Nepali Times. This post is a little old but gives good insight. It dates back to 2002 but still the situation are similar.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Second Virginity !!!
I came across this term while i was playing with google and i was amazed . When today i did some search it turned out that so called "Second Virginity" was nothing more that sexual abstinence. Now this concept is good for people who may have onced had sex and lost their virginity in haste to regret it later but not for people who already got involved in an active sexual life. You may not have sex for years but you if you already had sex, you know what it feel likes and thus you cannot be classified a virgin. Physically if you had sex once you are no longer a virgin. Spiritually it may make sense though as a person may feel a virgin spiritually . As i am not much of a spiritual guy i think that "second virginity" is a hard concept to digest.
Virginity can only be lost one time.
Check out these links:
Virginity Loss Comes Once
Second Virginity- We Can Regain Somthing We've Lost
Virginity can only be lost one time.
Check out these links:
Virginity Loss Comes Once
Second Virginity- We Can Regain Somthing We've Lost
Friday, January 18, 2008
Virginity : Is It That Big Deal ???????????
To start with i am a virgin. I havent had sex. Its Just because i think i am not yet ready to have sex . I feel i am doing right. People may have many other reasons like having strong religious and cultural value and some feel that they might regret later if they lose their virginity in haste. If You are a virgin then there may be many questions running in your head.
Every body is having sex , so why not me?
Well not everybody , most people usually dont haste into having their first sex and those who do usually regret later. Listinening to all the talks around you , you may want to have sex yourself but i would not consider that a wise descison. You should only have sex when its the right time for you.
So when is the right time ?
Only you can tell when is the right time for you to have sex. There is no certain age for having your first sex. You and your patner should both agree on the descion you have made. You should feel comfortable and you must discuss all the issues before having sex. This way You can ensure that you first sex is a pleasent experince.
But i am too shy to discuss ?
Then forget it , you arent ready yet. Wait until you feel comfortable to discuss these issues.
Does first time sex hurts or is it a great experince?
It will most of times . I have heard that some girls also bleed a little. This occurs because the hymen breaks while having sex for first time. There is no garuntee that you first experince should be a great or even a pleasnt experince.
I am a virgin , Does this mean that i am immature?
Well, no . Losing your virginity does not make you mature or adult. Losing you virginity is just a step towards having an active sexual life. There is no relation with maturity and virginity.
Do i loes my virginity if i mastubrate?
No
What about oral sex and anal sex?
Generally no. But different people have different views.
Will i look unexperinced if i tell my partner that i am a virgin?
I would advise you to share you sexual history with you partner . If you lie today you may have to regret tommorow. Try to be honest.
Will pregnency occur in first time sex?
Yes . Always be careful against STI's(Sexually Transmited Infection) and unwanted pregnancies.
Will sex affect my relationship ?
Well it too depends on you and your partner . Feel free to discuss with your partner.
Just remember that if you lose you virginity under peer pressure or just because all you friends are having sex and if you have sex just to lose virginity you might regret it later.
Every body is having sex , so why not me?
Well not everybody , most people usually dont haste into having their first sex and those who do usually regret later. Listinening to all the talks around you , you may want to have sex yourself but i would not consider that a wise descison. You should only have sex when its the right time for you.
So when is the right time ?
Only you can tell when is the right time for you to have sex. There is no certain age for having your first sex. You and your patner should both agree on the descion you have made. You should feel comfortable and you must discuss all the issues before having sex. This way You can ensure that you first sex is a pleasent experince.
But i am too shy to discuss ?
Then forget it , you arent ready yet. Wait until you feel comfortable to discuss these issues.
Does first time sex hurts or is it a great experince?
It will most of times . I have heard that some girls also bleed a little. This occurs because the hymen breaks while having sex for first time. There is no garuntee that you first experince should be a great or even a pleasnt experince.
I am a virgin , Does this mean that i am immature?
Well, no . Losing your virginity does not make you mature or adult. Losing you virginity is just a step towards having an active sexual life. There is no relation with maturity and virginity.
Do i loes my virginity if i mastubrate?
No
What about oral sex and anal sex?
Generally no. But different people have different views.
Will i look unexperinced if i tell my partner that i am a virgin?
I would advise you to share you sexual history with you partner . If you lie today you may have to regret tommorow. Try to be honest.
Will pregnency occur in first time sex?
Yes . Always be careful against STI's(Sexually Transmited Infection) and unwanted pregnancies.
Will sex affect my relationship ?
Well it too depends on you and your partner . Feel free to discuss with your partner.
Just remember that if you lose you virginity under peer pressure or just because all you friends are having sex and if you have sex just to lose virginity you might regret it later.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
जय कन्डम !!!! (Hail Condom)
यौन तानाहाशाहा हो!
हो , यौन तानाहाशाहा हो । यौन पूर्व मेची देखि माहाकाली मात्र नभएर पुर्व जापान देखि लिएर पश्चिम अ मेरिका सम्म यस्को राज छ । अझ नभएर गुगलमा सबै भन्दा खोजीने शब्द नै यौन हो । संसार मा सबै भन्दा बढी बिबाद र र्चचा पाउने बिषय पनि यहि नै हो । प्लेब्वाई देखी लिएर ब्रिट्नी स्पेयर्स, पामेला एन्डरशन सबै यौन बिषय ले गर्दा नै बढी चर्चित छन् । तपाईं हामीले हेर्न साप्ताहिक पनि सेक्सी मोडेल र तेस्तै कुराले मात्र बढि भरिएको हुन्छ ।आजकाल हाम्रो शहर बजार को फेशन देख्नु भएकै छ होला ,युवती हरु कोही पारदर्सक कपडाले आफुलाई आकर्षक बनाउने होडमा छन् भने कोही छोटा छोटा र तला माथि ह्वाङ्ग देखिने खाले कपडाले बजार तताएको छन् । कसैलाई शरीरलाई टमक्क पारेर उत्तेजना फैलाउने खाले कपडा मा देख्न सकिन्छ । मैले यो सबै युवतीले गर्छन भन्न चाँहि खोजेको होईन । र यौनले सबैले गाँजेको छ पनि भन्न खोजेको होईन । यो तानाशाहा को प्रभाव जतातत्तै छाएको छ मात्र भन्न खोजेको हुँ । यौन सर्वब्यापी र सर्वमान्य छ । हो , यौन हरेक समाज र परिबेस अनुसार फरक पर्न सक्छ तर यो सर्वब्यापी छ । यस्ले सबैलाई गाँजेको छ ।
यौन कै कारण यौन अपराध लगाएत बलत्कार र हत्या हीँसा समेत हुने गरेको प्रसस्त सुन्न र देख्न पाइन्छ । यौन आफैमा नराम्रो साएद कसैले मान्दैन तर यस्लाई प्रयोग र कस्तो समयमा उपायोग ले मात्र यस्को राम्रो र नराम्रो पक्ष छुटाउने गर्छ । अहिले पोखरा लगाएत नेपाल क कत्ती ठाँउकाक रेस्टुरेन्ट मा यौन ब्यापार खुल्ला र सहज तरिकाले देखिन्छ ।
यौन अहिले मात्र गरेने कृयाकलाप नभएर यो त देवी देउता का पाला देखी आएको चलन भनिन्छ ।
पश्चिमी मुलुक मा यो खुला छ र यौन अली उदार रुप ले लिने गरीन्छ तर नेपाल मा एस्लाई अझै गोप्य र असान्धर्भिक मानिन्छ । सन्सार का आकर्सक बस्तु हरु मधे पुरुष लाई महीलको जिउडाल र महील लाई पुरुष को जिउडाल आकर्सक लाग्ने गरेको देखिन्छ र सुनिन्छ पनि । ईन्टरनेट मा पोर्न (अस्लील्) साईट हरु हेर्न युवा हरु को जमातै ठुलो देखिन्छा ।कत्ती युवा युवती हरु डेटिङ को बहाना मा यौन मा लिप्त भएको पनि सुनिएको छ ।प्रेमी प्रेमिका को आपसी सहमती मा यौन गर्ने गरेको कुरा हरु पनि अगाडी आएकै छन् । साप्तहीको को यौन जिज्ञास तेसै यत्रो बाह्र तेर्ह बर्ष सम्म लगातार चलि रहेको छैन र । चाहे होलिवुड या बलिउड क्षेत्र मा यौन बिषयमा प्रसस्त फिल्म हरु बनेका छन । "निला " चलचित्र हरु धमाधम दिन का दिन बिक्री भएको कुरा देखिएकै छ केरे ।अझ नभएर नेपाली निला फिल्म हरु पनि देख्न थालिएको छ ।नेपाल मा यौन एक्दम अब्यवस्थित छ । यौन बिषयमा सबै युवा जमात लाई थाहा हुनु पर्छ । यस्का फाइद र बेफाइद यस्का बिभिन्न राम्रा र नरम्रा पक्ष्य हरु खुलेर प्रस्त पार्नु पर्ने हुन्छ । यौन सदुपायोग गरे राम्रो र दुरुपायोग गरे घातक हुन्छ । एच आई भी , गोनोर्होए, सिफीलिस जस्ता रोग ले ज्यान समेत लिन सक्छ । यौन कर्मी महिला अथवा पुरुष हरुलाई सके सम्मा यौन पेसा बाट बिस्थपीत गरेर नया रोज्गार्मुलक कार्य दिन सके अत्ती उत्तम हुन्छ । नसके रेड लाईट यरीया को घोसणा गरेर यौन ब्यवसाय ब्यवस्थित गर्न जरुरी छ ।यौन जत्ती कुन्थित परेर रख्न खोज्यो त्यो तेत्तीनऐ बिस्फोतक्कारी हुन्छ तेसैले एस्को सही ब्यवस्थापाअन अत्तेएन्तै जरुरी छ ।
यौन ब्यापार लाई सही ठाँउको र सही कानुन ल्याएर ब्यभस्थित पार्न अत्त्एन्त आवस्यक देखिन्छ । एक जना भन्दा बढी साथी सँग यौन ब्यबहार गर्दा कन्डम को प्रायोग अनिवार्या गर्नुस । यौन ब्यबहार मा कुन्ठित हुनु भन्दा हस्थ मैथुन गरेर आफ्नो यौन चाहान पुरा गर्नुस । हरेक पटक यौन गर्दा यस्को परीणाम समेत ख्याल गर्नुस । युवा जमात लाई यौन शिक्षा दिन जरुरी छ जस्ले गर्दा यौन समस्या र शारिरिक परिवर्तन को वारेमा उ आफुँ सजग र प्रस्ट हुन सकोस ,सके सम्म राम्ररी बुझेको साथी सँग मात्र सम्पार्क राख्नु होला । कहिले कहिले यौन उत्तेजना हुँदा आफुलाई आफैले संयम गर्ने गर्नु पर्छ । अन्तमा कन्डम प्रयोग गर्नुस एच आई भी भागाउनुहोस । जय कन्डम !!!!
Src: http://www.saranepal.com/forum/viewtopic.php?action=showfull&id=24&t=240&ucat=335f5352088d7d9bf74191e006d8e24c&start_from=6324&
हो , यौन तानाहाशाहा हो । यौन पूर्व मेची देखि माहाकाली मात्र नभएर पुर्व जापान देखि लिएर पश्चिम अ मेरिका सम्म यस्को राज छ । अझ नभएर गुगलमा सबै भन्दा खोजीने शब्द नै यौन हो । संसार मा सबै भन्दा बढी बिबाद र र्चचा पाउने बिषय पनि यहि नै हो । प्लेब्वाई देखी लिएर ब्रिट्नी स्पेयर्स, पामेला एन्डरशन सबै यौन बिषय ले गर्दा नै बढी चर्चित छन् । तपाईं हामीले हेर्न साप्ताहिक पनि सेक्सी मोडेल र तेस्तै कुराले मात्र बढि भरिएको हुन्छ ।आजकाल हाम्रो शहर बजार को फेशन देख्नु भएकै छ होला ,युवती हरु कोही पारदर्सक कपडाले आफुलाई आकर्षक बनाउने होडमा छन् भने कोही छोटा छोटा र तला माथि ह्वाङ्ग देखिने खाले कपडाले बजार तताएको छन् । कसैलाई शरीरलाई टमक्क पारेर उत्तेजना फैलाउने खाले कपडा मा देख्न सकिन्छ । मैले यो सबै युवतीले गर्छन भन्न चाँहि खोजेको होईन । र यौनले सबैले गाँजेको छ पनि भन्न खोजेको होईन । यो तानाशाहा को प्रभाव जतातत्तै छाएको छ मात्र भन्न खोजेको हुँ । यौन सर्वब्यापी र सर्वमान्य छ । हो , यौन हरेक समाज र परिबेस अनुसार फरक पर्न सक्छ तर यो सर्वब्यापी छ । यस्ले सबैलाई गाँजेको छ ।
यौन कै कारण यौन अपराध लगाएत बलत्कार र हत्या हीँसा समेत हुने गरेको प्रसस्त सुन्न र देख्न पाइन्छ । यौन आफैमा नराम्रो साएद कसैले मान्दैन तर यस्लाई प्रयोग र कस्तो समयमा उपायोग ले मात्र यस्को राम्रो र नराम्रो पक्ष छुटाउने गर्छ । अहिले पोखरा लगाएत नेपाल क कत्ती ठाँउकाक रेस्टुरेन्ट मा यौन ब्यापार खुल्ला र सहज तरिकाले देखिन्छ ।
यौन अहिले मात्र गरेने कृयाकलाप नभएर यो त देवी देउता का पाला देखी आएको चलन भनिन्छ ।
पश्चिमी मुलुक मा यो खुला छ र यौन अली उदार रुप ले लिने गरीन्छ तर नेपाल मा एस्लाई अझै गोप्य र असान्धर्भिक मानिन्छ । सन्सार का आकर्सक बस्तु हरु मधे पुरुष लाई महीलको जिउडाल र महील लाई पुरुष को जिउडाल आकर्सक लाग्ने गरेको देखिन्छ र सुनिन्छ पनि । ईन्टरनेट मा पोर्न (अस्लील्) साईट हरु हेर्न युवा हरु को जमातै ठुलो देखिन्छा ।कत्ती युवा युवती हरु डेटिङ को बहाना मा यौन मा लिप्त भएको पनि सुनिएको छ ।प्रेमी प्रेमिका को आपसी सहमती मा यौन गर्ने गरेको कुरा हरु पनि अगाडी आएकै छन् । साप्तहीको को यौन जिज्ञास तेसै यत्रो बाह्र तेर्ह बर्ष सम्म लगातार चलि रहेको छैन र । चाहे होलिवुड या बलिउड क्षेत्र मा यौन बिषयमा प्रसस्त फिल्म हरु बनेका छन । "निला " चलचित्र हरु धमाधम दिन का दिन बिक्री भएको कुरा देखिएकै छ केरे ।अझ नभएर नेपाली निला फिल्म हरु पनि देख्न थालिएको छ ।नेपाल मा यौन एक्दम अब्यवस्थित छ । यौन बिषयमा सबै युवा जमात लाई थाहा हुनु पर्छ । यस्का फाइद र बेफाइद यस्का बिभिन्न राम्रा र नरम्रा पक्ष्य हरु खुलेर प्रस्त पार्नु पर्ने हुन्छ । यौन सदुपायोग गरे राम्रो र दुरुपायोग गरे घातक हुन्छ । एच आई भी , गोनोर्होए, सिफीलिस जस्ता रोग ले ज्यान समेत लिन सक्छ । यौन कर्मी महिला अथवा पुरुष हरुलाई सके सम्मा यौन पेसा बाट बिस्थपीत गरेर नया रोज्गार्मुलक कार्य दिन सके अत्ती उत्तम हुन्छ । नसके रेड लाईट यरीया को घोसणा गरेर यौन ब्यवसाय ब्यवस्थित गर्न जरुरी छ ।यौन जत्ती कुन्थित परेर रख्न खोज्यो त्यो तेत्तीनऐ बिस्फोतक्कारी हुन्छ तेसैले एस्को सही ब्यवस्थापाअन अत्तेएन्तै जरुरी छ ।
यौन ब्यापार लाई सही ठाँउको र सही कानुन ल्याएर ब्यभस्थित पार्न अत्त्एन्त आवस्यक देखिन्छ । एक जना भन्दा बढी साथी सँग यौन ब्यबहार गर्दा कन्डम को प्रायोग अनिवार्या गर्नुस । यौन ब्यबहार मा कुन्ठित हुनु भन्दा हस्थ मैथुन गरेर आफ्नो यौन चाहान पुरा गर्नुस । हरेक पटक यौन गर्दा यस्को परीणाम समेत ख्याल गर्नुस । युवा जमात लाई यौन शिक्षा दिन जरुरी छ जस्ले गर्दा यौन समस्या र शारिरिक परिवर्तन को वारेमा उ आफुँ सजग र प्रस्ट हुन सकोस ,सके सम्म राम्ररी बुझेको साथी सँग मात्र सम्पार्क राख्नु होला । कहिले कहिले यौन उत्तेजना हुँदा आफुलाई आफैले संयम गर्ने गर्नु पर्छ । अन्तमा कन्डम प्रयोग गर्नुस एच आई भी भागाउनुहोस । जय कन्डम !!!!
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Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Penis Pump and Breast Pump
If we see these two ADs above, at first, it's hard to find out what these are all about.
Now, lets talk about Handsome UP in above ad. Out of query, when i called them, a lady responded and then my call got forwarded. There a gent spoke to me, and i put my question like:
Me: tyo handsome up bhaneko k ho, dai
Him: ahhh..( i figured out he was in public area).. eh tyo .. hajur ko,.. tyo chahi.. cha ni.. ahh..
Me:( i was like AREY!!! for a moment).. hajur
Him: tyo cha ni, Gents haru ko.. cha ni.. tyo THULO parney chij ho..
Me: k ho testo chij chahi tapaiko
Him: eh tyo.. tyo USA ko machine ho..
Me: eh.. ani kati ni tesko daam chahi..
Him: dherai hoina 2500 rupiyaa matra..
Me: tutt!! dai pani, waha mailey 1700 Rupeyaa ma dekhya chu..
Him:(he started to get annoyed), hora?? eh tyo ta.. nakkali ho, chinese saman.. hamro ta USA ko ho, original..
Me: ha ha ha ha.. hus dai, ahiley rakhchu pachi phone garchu..
Him: ani tapai ahiley kaha bata bolnu bhako
Me: ma?? ( i lied) chabahil bata.
and i put down the phone.
I found that he was talking about PENIS PUMP. A penis exercise device. It sucks the air when penis is put inside the vacuum tube giving artificial erection to penis. And releasing the air in and sucking air out again which gives full blood flow to all parts of penis and hence giving solid-rock erection. There are 3 different sizes of rubbers to put on Penis so that there is air tight.
There was a POWER UP before and now, it's HANDSOME UP. Both of these are same machine. Due to some reasons, these guys are not giving proper infos on AD. Power Up costs around Rs2000 but Handsome Up is costing around Rs 2500. In medical stores, according to them, doctors are selling it for Rs 3000 for erectile dysfunction issues.
ANd, i don't know much about the ladies breast pump but many years ago, i heard it from one my friend. I don't know if it was for her or whom, but she told me that she ordered something special from Bombay for her friend. When i inquired lot about that special thing, she told me it's some sort of breast enlarging cream/tools for her friend. And i shut up after i heard that. I think one of the Above AD directly relates to Women's Breast Pumping machine. If i'm not wrong it works on the same principal as of penis pumps.
Now, i really don't know if these ADs really works or not. But, both men and women want attractive body. Men wants huge penis and women wants bigger breast. It's universal truth. And to take benefit of peoples miseries, ADs like above make profit.
One thing i admit, we work on our different body part, i mean we exercise and pumps our body part, like biceps, triceps, chest etc. When we keep ourselves fit, we look good but have we been really caring about our penis? i think if it has nothing harm , then using such pump is must. After all, our Mr. Happy does need proper blood circulation and exercise. Don't care if it doesn't grow in thickness or length. Give it also a proper exercise.
One thing is sure, women with big breast is turn on for men and men with big penis is turn on for women. Accept the truth and follow the trends.
More on next time.
Saturday, May 26, 2007
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